We have been home since the first of March. And so far, life is good. Our jobs are great, the weather gets better every week, we see our family on a regular basis, and the house is getting closer and closer to becoming a full functioning residence. While working on the house, I have learned a lot about renovation. No, I am not the next Bob Villa; however, I have been trying to understand the emotional and physical aspects that go along with renovating.
Emotionally, you start off excited to set goals for designs, budgets, & completion dates. These emotions allow you to physically attack the project full steam ahead; avoiding sleep and overlooking minor detials like eating patterns and working out. As the renovation jumps to phase II, the emotions start to change. Those designs you dreamed up now seem like a nightmare, while the words “budget” and “completion date” make you laugh and cry at the same time. As your emotions change, your physical presence alters as well. Those late nights are making the morning walk from the bed to the shower seem longer and longer, and you forget the last time you ate sitting down. But there is hope. Somewhere beyond the drywall dust and missing tape measurer, you see light at the end of the tunnel. And that tunnel you are in is phase III, the final phase. Of cousres, phase III is not the same as your original phase III plan. Somewhere in the midst of swiping credit cards and swinging hammers you came to the conclusion that you can put off some of the renovation project until next summer.
How’s your renovation going? I’ve come to the conclusion that these emotional and physical traits are not limited to a house renovation. Whatever problems we are trying to tackle or habits we want to change, we must learn to face the challenges that go along with renovation. And do not ignore these inevitable emotional and physical affects; rather, prepare yourself for the unexpected and relax when you have to switch gears every now and then. Most importantly, remember to enjoy the journey or you may risk someday regretting the destination.
Very good post Danny.
wow danny, very deep, but also very true. i like it:) and i think you should write a book or be a preacher/speaker!
My man, your thinking and writing skills have always been two of your greatest strengths. I loved reading this. Moreover, I am glad you are home. I am sure there are aspects of the county that are not nearly as awesome as some of the places you two have been. The good part of that is the fact you have been to so many great places and enjoyed wonderful new friends and experiences. It has often been said that one cannot go home again. The Danny Webb I know will defy that statement and do everything in his power to prove it wrong. I am so proud of you! I know there will be bumps in the road, but they are only bumps. You will handle things as they come, and still take time to explore new places and tackle new ventures. Welcome home!
Thanks Jenn, Tracy, and Miss Kilgore. I am glad people are able to get something out of my thoughts. Thanks again for checking up on us.